Dear Caitlin: We had sex and he never spoke to me again

Dear Caitlin, I met a guy online, and we went out about 9 times before having sex. After we slept together, he said he had a great time and he would call me. He never did. I contacted him and he didn’t answer. I feel like he used me and I wish we hadn’t had […]

Dear Caitlin: My boyfriend finishes too soon and leaves me hanging

Dear Caitlin: My boyfriend finishes too soon and leaves me hanging

Dear Caitlin, I feel like every time I have sex with my boyfriend, he finishes and I’m kind of left hanging.  I feel awkward saying something because I think he might get defensive. Is there something I can do or say that will make him realize I need a little bit more from him? Thanks! Awkward […]

Dear Caitlin: My parents are dead set against my relationship!

Dear Caitlin: My parents are dead set against my relationship!

Dear Caitlin: I am a twenty-eight year old professional, never married. Now, I have fallen in love with a man who is also in love with me, and is almost 20 years older than I am. He is divorced with two teenage children. I am an only child, and my parents are dead set against this […]

Dear Caitlin: My boyfriend doesn’t want me to meet his family

Dear Caitlin: My boyfriend doesn’t want me to meet his family

Dear Caitlin, I have been dating Brad for over a year, and I still have not met his family.  He says he is not close to his family and doesn’t want much to do with them.  But he goes home for Christmas Eve, and for a few other holidays and for the birthdays of his niece and […]

Dear Caitlin: Why do men keep leaving me even though I’m giving them 100%??

Dear Caitlin: Why do men keep leaving me even though I’m giving them 100%??

Dear Caitlin, I have had a couple relationships in the past few years. I dated one guy for 2 years, and another for one year. I give these men 100 percent, and they leave me. They leave without even saying goodbye. They literally stop talking to me, refuse to answer me, and then call me […]